Chapter 68

I felt a twinge of impatience. Traumatized kids needed time to adjust—lots and lots of time. In one study I’d read, the authors concluded such kids needed two years to recover for every year they’d lost to abandonment or abuse. If a child had been kicking around the foster system for four years, for example, it would take him eight years to “recover” and learn to trust and establish normal family bonds.

I wanted to kiss his forehead, show him some affection, but I did not. Instead I gently took his hand into my own and drew a circle on his palm. I glanced up at him; he was waiting for me to do it again. I drew several more, not looking at him. When I stopped, he put out his other hand, wanting me to do that one.

I smiled.