Chapter 33 Better to be Esoteric than exoteric

I keep on telling people the need to close some spaces in their life if not all spaces, the more spaces in your life the more vulnerable you become, if there are lots of spaces in your life they will be lots of unexplainable things happening constantly in your every day life and you will not know.

"It is better to be esoteric than to be exoteric" you owe no one no explanation but to your God.

Close your wide cycle and you'll feel real peace, there are lots of noise in the public, and where there's such noise nothing serious will be heard, check all your engagements and your entanglements, if you must be engaged that much let it be to your self, let the burden of saving yourself to save others be above every other things, be engaged to saving yourself so that you can save others when you're saved.

"A dead soldier can not fight to save the living soldiers, it is the living that can save the living"

Having wider cycle simply means having many holes where you will sink through, "when everyone is your friend you actually have no friend"

"And the more you have spaces for unnecessary things the more give out the spaces for necessary things"

"The more you open yourself for everyone the more you keep reducing your value"

Allow people to see you from afar the good ones will always see you closely with much love and much care not competition8

When your door is closed people knock before coming inside if you grant them, that's if you're around, but if your door is already open and your curtains are up and you're not around some of them will not knock, they will just jump inside and do whatever they like and go whenever they want.

When you have lots of spaces in your life and you are not even aware of it because you're too busy living as if you have spare life somewhere else you wouldn't have the time to check or know if you're opening yourself to somethings that is not supposed to see you to that extent, and so you're making spaces for the enemies to perforate.

You don't use a day to choose who is your best friend, that's if there's anything like that, believe it or not it is until your trying times that you will choose who cares for you or not, it is until your hard times that you will know who loves you for real, real friends can not be many believe it or not, rather it will just be an organization of people who understands the purpose of the union.

Real friends can not be many, you can't have many best friends, it is always only one person that truely stays while everyone is gone, highest you can get is two and they're hardly same gender rather opposite sex.

So you can imagine having as many best friends as 20 different persons from 20 different places and 20 different mindset, it's more like you have 40 best friends because each one of your best friend has at least one best friend that he or she is so comfortable with and that person still has another best friend that has their own best friends and it just goes on.

And that's just the number of vulnerabilities in your life, that is why I keep on telling people to close most of the spaces they have carelessly created in their life, it is generally understood that we don't need to much spaces in our lives just for our own concern.

The world we are into is filled with many things and the worst things in this world is we the human beings, human beings are the worst atrocities in this world God even regretted why he made us.

It simply means that everyone needs to be very careful about the people that comes into their life, do not be overwhelmed when people are trooping into your it doesn't mean you are doing good it means you're them good but the real question is, can all of them stand for you in your worst moments to you that same good you did for them?

The answer is, not all of them can, most of them don't even wish to, some of them may wish but will only end up in wishing.

No one comes around you if you have nothing to offer no matter how beautiful you may look, people don't go where it's not beneficial.

But the real ones will stay beside you to the last for better for worse, it is always 3 among 12 and 1 among 3 so choose wisely the people you build your life with, that is the people around you currently now that you're reading this book, choose wisely.

Reshuffle your life and reselect the right ones you build your life with, the who has stood beside you for ages and they are not giving up you no matter what has transpired between you both, those who has stood beside you given you their strength when you need it most and understands your words unspoken.

You don't need to explain your situations for your real friend to understand, if they see you they will know exactly what is going on and how to assist you in one way or the other.

You don't have to explain anything to your enemies they will never believe you, so no need of explaining to them,let them believe whatever they want, I owe no one no explanation except God my creator my owner.