Lost Souls
In order to clarify things right, it's best we know what others who are carprit of lust have to say.There have been recording in different social media platforms ;Facebook, Instagram, telegram,whatsup that in one way have brought people together to warn people of the danger that is along the way about this curtic behavior.The pages and group agenda is to distort people from posting naked women and men in their groups in order to help those in problem.
Some may view this as disadvantaged to the people involved and others may view it as advantage , it's just how you think.Group discussion have helped alot of people,a problem solved is half way solved.The bottom line is help, people are willing to be help but they are silent ,silence won't change anything,it will opress you until you have depression which inturns may harm alot you future life.This is a story of one guy who has been in masterbation .I will give three case study which will help to educate everyone.
First case study
"Okay group will tell you I was growing like every other regular kid and there was just one day that I really remember it and that was the first day when I touched my self,I felt this felling that we all grown people called orgasm.It was something from one side that I really liked and it was enjoyable but,when I started when I....when I started I continued doing it I felt this guilt in my heart that I may be doing something wrong and I want to say that this gult still didn't left me.I am 20 years old and I am still masturbating.Guys I want to tell you that,that masturbation broke my life .I was like a regular kid back then but then this happened .I had this felling.I had this felling that I can become an inventor I can,like,make start ups and just be successul in life but no!i replaced it with masturbation.I wanted to create something that could have changed the world but then this bad thing happened to me[crying]Guys I am just spending hours, countless hours watching porn and bashing my dick.I can't stop myself.i am just relapsing over and over again.I tried....but....I tried to stop but I can't stop[crying continues].I don't think my life would be same again.This was what I wanted to tell you today"[source youtube-Lets grow with me].
Second case study
Another story by Yamini who was a widow and had to take care of her two children had her say"I and my husband separated a year ago due to compatibility issues and since then, my sex life has almost been dead. I hardly get time to invest in the area of 'self-love' because my two sons and a demanding job keep me on my toes all the time. But I realized, with the help of some friends, that I needed to do something about my sexual health. And this is when, on an adventurous note, I decided to masturbate every day for a week. Here's what happened.Day 1
So, it was the first day of my masturbation challenge and undoubtedly, I was excited. I dropped my kids off to school and was left with two hours. This is when I utilized the time to my purpose. It didn't go as I had expected because I climaxed pretty soon. This was a bummer but it really did kick-startDay 2
Again, I had the same routine so I utilized the time between my office and dropping off my kids to school. I was still excited to see how this goes and it went pretty well this time. I took time; I realized how important this used to be for me and how I had to keep this going. My friends were right after all.
One of my sons fell sick and decided not go to school today and I was left in a dilemma – whether to continue with this stupid thing I had started on or not. I dropped the other one to school and came back with baffling thoughts, only to find my other kid dozing off. This led me to a decisive point – I must continue what I started and there I went again. It took me the most time to climax today but it was also the longest climax I had had so far. It felt amazing. I felt tired and fresh at the same time. I hit office with a glowing face today.
When I had thought that my sex drive had almost dried up and I was almost heading towards a hermit-like life, I am so glad to have found my sexuality again. The most important lesson that I take home is that your sexuality is your own and it doesn't depend on any other person. You may not masturbate every day but it is important that you maintain a healthy sex life of your own. But remember never to overdo this. The line is drawn where your sexual habits start affecting your life in a negative way. I don't think I will masturbate every day now but I will do it every some time as it keeps me feeling young, makes my skin glow, betters my blood circulation and what not. What else can you ask for.
Third case study.
I was in my daily routine activity when I visited my relative and I was given a movie which in it had nudity inside it.I went back home and sat down quietly and started watching the problem if my future life.I started the movie and would speed the movie so as to show me it was good.The action in the movie was great,just before I had watch this movie I had problem of getting a girlfriend as where I lived my mentors always told me to concentrate with my education.I did it and I didn't want to be involved with any girl,their mentorship gave me a bad idea that girls are bad.When I was through with my high school studies,I had this girl I admired alot and because I was a fool,I didn't know how to approach her and tell her how I felt for her,but there were challenges because she was crowded by her parents and didn't want her parents to know she was having a boyfriend,but later came to realize she was just a lier.This promoted my sinful action and before I could know I was far away.I didn't want any girl to me with me and I was satisfied with my life.Days went by and we were completely separated before I would get a pinch of how love felt.I personally loved her but she didn't which would become impossible.
I opted the action I was doing and it became part of my life I didn't tell you how it started,when I was sitting down staring at the movie,I saw a sex seen and it was the case that made me to continue to persue my stupid and useless actions.My parents were not aware what was happening in my life but I didn't care also.I went to bed and started remembering about the sex image and when it entered my brain my private part arouse and my mind was in action of sex ,I started touching and smothering my penis and something came out of it,it was a mucus thing.That made me fell good and I would continue doing it.Every day I would close door and did it.Life was becoming better even without women around me,but I was breaking some laws that governed my life At that time I didn't care about anybody ,who ever would come to stop me I would not even listen to them.My life was hooked and booked on masturbation and work.To tell you the truth I didn't know that it was masturbation and it's outcome,cause,challanges and many other things were not in my head.I came to realize it about one year later.Life was becoming good for me and to deviate from it was something vocabulary to me.
Some times I would go to my bed do it two times and the overdoing it became a load to me .There were challenges that I started experiencing but because I had made up my mind it didn't allow me to stop.I was living a life like a slave when it starts hunting me I would accept the hunting and would cought doing the action.Love was to become difficult for me but of course I had to start a way to stop it.Stoping and existing from it was a challenge because it was a drug in my mind without it I had nothing to take care about myself.Moreover the guilt it left me with ,I didn't want my parents to know.Sometimes I would pray,fast but in the course of my prayers I would find myself doing it.
One day I had this sermon by a pastor who was in this case ,he was also in murstabation act for years and couldn't resist but one thing happened and that is the sermon in the church that opened his mind and the holy spirit took control of him and was free from oppression.I admired him and I had to push on praying and becoming busy was what was ringing in my head .I repeated this program until one day God open my eyes and my it vanished like wind.I feel like a child and when I would remember those days I was left with nothing else to forcus.Life is good out of addiction.Masturbation is an addict more addictive than drug and few people are able to live it.Last chapter I gave out how it started and all of us should know this thing is demonic.In the next chapter I will explain the demonic part if it,it will be scary but you need to listen carefully.
Understanding masturbation
There is absolutely nothing wrong if adolescent boys or girls masturbate. Practically all growing adolescent boys masturbate. It is an absolutely harmless act. It helps them to organise their sexual urges and patiently wait for a heterosexual encounter while they are still growing towards becoming responsible and mature men.
Medical science has proved that masturbation has no ill effects on one's health, growth, fertility or sexual strength. It is only when the child is made to feel either guilty or fearful about the act, that it weakens them psychologically and affects their self-image.
Many adults have a certain bias about sexual expression, which fills them with 'disgust'. There is nothing disgusting about self-pleasuring (through masturbation) in one's privacy without involving anyone else. At the age when secondary sexual characteristics are developing in boys as well as girls as an inevitable process of nature, they can find no better outlet than masturbation to vent their sexual urges. Such behaviour is a manifestation of them growing independent, which is a signal to parents that they are no more your 'baby-boys' or 'baby-girls' dependent on you for all their needs. Parents need to learn to respect their children's growing independence and individuality and love them for being normal, growing, independent individuals.
Masturbation is common during adolescence. It is necessary that we actively educate children about masturbation, while explaining to them that it is a natural form of release for pent-up sexual tension in the absence of a sexual partner. Boys need to be given the example of the pressure cooker mechanism, which requires the release of steam so that there is no explosion because of accumulated steam.
This can prevent irresponsible sexual experimentation, which results in unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections especially HIV, which leaves the teenager physically devastated and psychologically destabilised.
Masturbation and guilt
Some may feel guilty for masturbating because of cultural, spiritual, or religious beliefs.Masturbation is not wrong or immoral, but you can still hear the message that self-pleasure is "dirty" and "shameful."If you feel guilty for masturbating, talk to someone you trust why you feel that way and how you can advance that guilt. Doctors specializing in sexual health are a good resource.
Masturbation is addiction
Some masturbation can increase addiction. Masturbation Masturbation takes you a long time to:
Skip your tasks or daily activities
Miss work or school
Cancel plans with friends or family
Missing important social events
Masturbation addiction can harm your relationships and other parts of your life. Too much masturbation can damage your work or studies, which can reduce productivity.It can also damage your romantic relationships and friendships, because you don't spend much time with your loved ones, or care about their needs.If you are worried that you might be addicted to masturbation, talk to your doctor or consultant about ways to masturbate.Talk therapy can help you manage your addiction. You can also cut off masturbation by replacing it with other activities. Next time you insist on masturbation, try:
Going for a run
Writing in a journal
Spending time with friends
Going for a walk
Does masturbation reduce sexual sensitivity?
Increased excitement can help increase sexual desire and tenderness – including masturbation, even when sex is not working.In fact, 2009 and two studies found that the use of vibrators between women and men was associated with desire, excitement, and overall sexual function. According to studies, women also reported increased erectile dysfunction, while men reported improved erectile function.Because of its technique of masturbation, men can feel sensitivity during sex. Research has shown that tightening on the penis during masturbation also reduces arousal.Sexuality health professionals recommend using your technique during masturbation to restore sensitivity levels during sex.
Advantages of masturbation
Masturbation is a healthy sexual activity. It has many benefits for your physical and mental health.
There are limited studies on the benefits of masturbation, but there are also studies on arousal and arousal.
Research and story reports suggest that sexual arousal can help you, including masturbation:
Get rid of the tension
Sleep well
Improve your mood
Take a rest
Be happy
Eliminate sprays
Release the sexual tension
Have good sex
Better understand your wants and needs
Couples can masturbate to explore different desires, as well as escape from pregnancy. Self-soothing can help you avoid sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Masturbation and prostate cancer
Some research suggests that regular ejaculation reduces the risk of prostate cancer, although doctors are not sure why.A 2016 study found that men who ejaculate at least 21 times a month had a 20 percent lower risk of prostate cancer. A 2003 study found a similar relationship between persistent ejaculation and lower prostate cancer risk.However, there is no evidence that regular ejaculation protects against prostate cancer.
Masturbation during pregnancy
Hormone changes during pregnancy can increase sexual desire in some pregnant women. Masturbation is a safe way to release sexual tension during pregnancy.Self-pleasure can also help reduce pregnancy symptoms, such as low back pain. You may experience mild, irregular cramps or Braxton-Hicks contractions during and after intercourse.They need to be erased. If contractions do not appear and become more painful and persistent, contact your doctor immediately.Masturbation may not be safe for women with high-risk pregnancies. Orgasm increases your chances of labor an article written by doctor review of East Europe.
Conclusion
The case study I started with ,every person is speaking their thoughts.There are those who have been heard saying ,it has helped me except if they over doe it ,it causes alot of harm.Others are crying bitterly with guilt and wish it would disappear.Men are the most affected people.A research that was done by Indian health scientist shown that almost 70%of men are in this act and out of them 60% have no control and cannot be able to come out of it.Masturbation have made alot of families loss control and break up because men are not in a position to satisfy their wives.Women nowadays because of men high murstabation act have started buying dildos so that they can satisfy themselves.Wherever we are heading to is not a good road,.Men are the carry of seed of ensuring the generation is continuing flowing if distorted by any chance,the whole system perish and only men would answer to this.
When men cannot uphold their families,they tend to keep silent and are involved in drinking and drug addict so as to forget everything that they are facing in life.A voice of one man was heard saying"Everytime I go to work I feel comfortable and wish it doesn't get dark,when I remember I am going back to misery,I cannot go when I am upright I must get drank so that I can forget about my problems and also my wife .This is causing alot of bad memories to my children and I work for them.I can't tell my wife about previous life, it's very hard but I tend to tell her but when I look at her face how beautiful and a star to my life I start crying inside my heart and I cannot have words to speak to her face to face.The only problem I have is my children,if I loss them I am done with this life.i have three children who are my whole world I wish they would understand but my silence is making me separated from them,so I have to choose to be helped by my wife to stop all these fights.I love them and I cannot loss them."