In a Time of war and living in a war zone where life and death is unknown love becomes a luxury specially after traumatic events that causes an illness that's called Alyxithemia which leads to difficulty identifying, understanding, and expressing their own emotions. People with alexithymia may have trouble recognizing and describing their feelings, distinguishing between emotions and bodily sensations, and understanding the emotions of others. This can lead to challenges in interpersonal relationships and self-awareness