Chapter 8

Life lesion I have learned

I committed to overcome every step of life journey, however'' it’s sometime get better

and sometimes get worse, I'm considering how I got a good chance and sometimes get

a bad chance, so as I’m that person who was full of life lessons; I uses to never take bad

chance as a issues' I just accept as they are part of my personal growth, it’s up to me to

accept every single challenge that is coming on way and how to overcome without

hurting me, never in thousand years did I ever thinks I could live lavishly life without

facing worse situations any day along, I noticed bad chance and good chance are part

of our daily life.

It started back in 2012 when certain girl invited me to always help her teaching her or

help her finished her homework and teaching her on how to writing a letter, we

unusual reading together at her home not until a girl started low behaviors by telling

me I would love to give you a gift, I was surprised like; what type of a gift you need

to give me, the girl replied’ I need to give you my breast, don’t you love pressing the

breasts, I was shocked to hear that, I said’ no! you need to put me in trouble ain’t ready for that, she feels upsets with me for turning down her desired on me’ I said, we are

neighbor and this will cause big trouble between our parents, she replied I don’t care

who will be in trouble as long as I got you as mine, I just want you and that’s all I most

wanted, then I change my mind and stop going to her home for reading.

After few weeks later, in the afternoon when I was passed by her home while going

to watching movies in nearest café shop, she saw me and call me, Deng! Deng! Please

wait, so I stop by and waiting her to listen to what she need to tell me, she came and

told me’ I missed you so much, how it’s going dear love, why you stop come to our

home for reading, I said; it’s fine, she replied’ okay come along to help me lift

something with me.

It’s too heavy for me to lift alone since I’m female, so I following her thinking that we

are going to lift something, I never know it was a trap, after we gets inside house; She

catch me and hold me harder and told me you have to receive your gift now’ not even

second I hear someone throw down firewood in the compound, that shocked me

again and I told her you see, you got me in trouble; I uses all my Power to passed

through the grass house without using door.

Also I understood Dec usually came with issues, with it was started in Dec of 2016

when I lost my job due to hate of co-worker, follow by Dec of 2017 when thief broke

in our house in Khartoum and stolen my cell phone in which I used my Christmas

budget to buy a cell phone" follow by Christmas of Dec 2018 in which I lost my cell

phone again to Tax driver, then Dec of 19, 20, 21, and Dec of 2022 in which I

happened to go to work on Sunday while doing my job peaceful a guy who was after

me with hate, gossiping, has come along try to convict me to involve in fight with

him' with his abused words, insulting me try to force me to do his job' in which I refer

the issues to company-owner before' I asked him to stay away from me, that my job

doesn't have any connection with your job' but company-owner failed to solved the

issues and the guy still coming back to me with his hateful words' I told him ' that I

came to workplace to do my job , get pay and go home' I got no time for your negativities; you have to find someone out here; I have a lot of things to do for better

me' building my tomorrow leave me alone’ I have said’ to him. as likely story of virgin

girl who denied husbands sex:

Once upon a time, there was virgin girl who never met with male in her entire life

until she gets married, however the virgin girl was bewitched by her mother that if

you allow a man to touch your urinating object that man has finally place witches on

you, never allow a man to bewitched your urinating container. upon hearing this’ the

girl spent her entire life controlling being on contact with any man, when ask by any

man for relationship’ she responds all men are witchcrafts, until she finally got proposal

from her first husband, She accepted getting married to her first husband since her

mother told her to accept that since she is finally grown up now to be a woman, the

marriage was sets and celebrate in the entire village, and she was taken to her new

house as a bride, her husband paid minimum of 30 cows and 1 Bull as a dowries, here

coming her first night with witchcraft Aka man as her mother told her so, in the bride

and groom bed, she denied witchcraft to bewitched her, she told her husband that you

married me just to cook for you and watching your clothes, anything add is not

acceptable for I don't want to be bewitched by you.

Her husband was so surprised to hear this, he didn't expect this nonsense, when her

husband tries to settle with her, she rejected and fight him almost break his neck, the

girl is so strong as like tiger, her husband trying many times but she is untouchable,

her first husband when to her parents and ask for his cows for girl is unstoppable and

too strong to be forced, with dowries that has been paid some have gone missing in

which her parents have to pay back.

So her husband divorce her and left, In another following year, another man appear

to wanting her, she accepted then telling the man that her first husband was witchcraft

try to bewitched her, he didn't understand what she means and keep coming for married, The made another big wedding and she was taken to her home until the

another first night with her second husband, she told him Mr. Man, I'm here to cook

foods for you and help you doing house shores, if we sleep in the same bed then it’s

back on back, never try to bewitched me for I will beat you, her husband tried and

upend get beaten by her, situation was not easy for new wedded experience this, her

husband catch tempers and rushing on reclaiming his cows and her parents end up

payback again, her father made his decision that she could spend time single since she

is out of human's habits, She spent more than 3 years in her father house until once

wisest guy appear.

Which has happened to be her third husband, wisest man her about the girl her story

of rejected getting in contact once you married her, wisest man came cross to her

parents and ask to married the girl, her father rejected and her mother rejected telling

the man that once she gets married, we ended up payback all the costs and dowries,

we are tired of something that repeating itself unusual, wisest man claim that I will pay

dowries and I will not ask you to payback once I failed to get her, I will definitely get

her in simple way, not force, not fight, because if you force her to witness this

happening’ she might commit suicide because she might have been taught in wrong

way, and I will settle with her simply, her parents were so happy to hear wisest man

his wise words, they were happy that they will have grandchildren if happens.

Her third husband did everything wedding and Soo bhla bhla, and she was taken again

by the Wise man, and in their first night together, her third husband, told her in the

bed you're here to cook for me and do everything with me, I'm not a witchcraft like

others men, She was so happy to hear that and praises the man' The guy sleep with her

back to back, he never touch her' The guy spend one month with her sharing the bed

without touching her or ask her for anything, After month end and they are in their second month together, her husband told her they have to go on journey and this

journey is going to be long walks about two days on foot going thru savannah

Plainfield' They were holding little jar can of water’ that they suddenly finished drink

the water in one day and walk another day without water and thirsty, In long full day

of walks without drinking water.

They arrived in little river where wise man direct to teach her not to reject being

bewitched by the man, after they arrive at river bank, her husband told her; we have

to take more water with us, for the distance is so long after we filled our little jar can,

we have to fill our urinating container too, her husband dive underwater water and

come and tell her look at me’ I have filled my urinating container ‘ he urinate and told

her go and fill yours yourself, you know it's two days walk to go back home and this

jar can is too little for us in our journey’ She went into water trying to fetching her

own water on her own urinating container but she can't fetching any water’ she try

many time but fail, her husband laugh loud telling her it's up to you to fetch yours like

I did, She was not happy about it 'her husband told her I will help you fill yours

urinating container, She said’ I wish so please Mr. man, her husband to her sits with

spread legs and I will dive underwater and come to fill it.

I will definitely coming to fill it for you, if you feels something never mind that's me

filling your urinating container, her husband came and insert it’ she almost singing a

song, she said oh yes fill me more, I feels something so sweet, her husband came three

times and ask her’ we have to go since it's long walk, she said’ you have to fill me

more because it's long walk, she ask for one more filing, that filing feel sweet, her

husband fill it again and they go back home, They spend two days walk again going

back home, after they arrive home.

They spend 2 to 3 months and she got pregnant, her husband didn't tell her about it,

she thought it was water that was filled into her urinating container, so she could drink

on once she is on travelling' her husband told her to go home to her parents, he helped her packed her things for visiting her parents, when she arrives in her parent home and

everyone was surprised how the guy did this ' her mother asked her what has

happened? Why I saw your belly is little a bit big, she said" it was water filled by her

husband with his urinating container, her mother said, god-damned Why my

daughter you have been playing us for a while, she said what? her mother said ' you're

finally got fucked

She said' hmm is it how get fucks feels like, it's not bewitched as you said mom, it's

sweeter, I'm going back to my husband tomorrow.