empathy

After I proposed to let Tang Guo be Zhao Lin's bridesmaid, she was very silent, and only said to me after a while: "Are you making a mistake?" ... Don't you know who that brother is? It's almost draining your blood, he's married, and you're still busy giving him Zhang Luo; Do you know? The more you make a soft persimmon in front of him, the more he will get worse in the future..."

 Tang Guo's reaction surprised me and embarrassed me, I said to her: "What you said is right, but people live in this world, if they don't really come to a dead end, who wants to make themselves rootless and leafless?" ... I was born in such a family, and sometimes I am very disappointed, but I really hope that I can change the atmosphere of this family..."

 Speaking of this, I paused, and then said to Tang Guo on the other end of the phone with a smile: "You know what? I just had a meal with my younger siblings... She's a special, sensible girl... Before, when my brother got married, I sent 30,000 yuan to my family, and she came to repay me this money, as well as my father's alimony, and she also gave it to me... Actually, money is not money is secondary, I just like what she said, very sensible, and very warm-hearted..."

 Tang Guo also smiled: "How lacking love are you?" ... Such a small favor will buy you... You don't want to think about how much you've paid for your unsuccessful brother over the years... If she is really so sensible, you ask her to give you back the money you paid for your brother's schooling. "

 "You're just too mean, too calculating... Don't you think that's a good place to start? ... Tang Guo, you are just a bystander, and you don't know my feelings very well... The appearance of this younger brother and sister really made me lose the sense of powerlessness that I had before... My family needs her so much, maybe she can really change my family... So, that's why I want to go back to the wedding... Do you really want me to be alone? "

 Tang Guo sighed softly, and then replied, "I've always thought of myself as your best friend, but I probably don't really know what you want... I'll put myself in their shoes, though... So, I can understand your feelings right now... I'm going to go with you... When will their wedding take place? I asked for leave from Elder Zhang in advance, but fortunately, Zhangzhou is not far away, one day is enough, right? "

 "That's enough, next Wednesday."

 After answering like this, Tang Guo hung up the phone, but I could feel that she agreed very reluctantly, thanks to her being my best friend, otherwise, I would definitely lose face in front of Zhao Lin.

 The night was gradually falling, and I rushed to buy a TV for Lao Yu before the mall was closed; After the installation, Lao Yu was so happy that he forgot about the unpleasant quarrel with me yesterday, he smiled and asked me: "This TV didn't cost less, right?" "

 "Two thousand two, Yu Lei spent two thousand, and I made up two hundred."

 "Yu Lei spent two thousand, what does this mean?"

 "Zhao Lin came to Xiamen today, and I had a meal with her... She said that in the future, she and Yu Lei will give you alimony of 2,000 yuan a month, but this money has to be placed here with me, and I will use the first month's alimony to buy you a TV. "

 "Yo, Yu Lei, this kid, can have this thought... Can't tell! "

 "He's found a good daughter-in-law... Zhao Lin is very good... She talked to me about her marriage to Yu Lei, and I promised her that next Wednesday, we would go back to Zhangzhou together to attend their wedding. "

 "Hmm."

 "Didn't you want to go back before? You quarreled with me about this, why have you changed your mind now? "

 "I'm looking at Zhao Lin's face."

 "Hey... It doesn't matter whose face you're looking at... I'm glad you can go back... However, Zhao Lin is indeed a good girl, she is reasonable and disciplined... is not like Qi Fei, who has a sad face every day, as if everyone owes her. "

 ...

 Lao Yu's mouth, the knife that kills people; Half of my good mood was lost in an instant, and I replied to him in a cold voice: "If you and my mother can treat me like Yu Lei, will Qi Fei be like this?" ... Don't forget, the years I dated Qi Fei happened to be the years when Yu Lei went to college... I didn't want to talk about it, but if you still have Qi Fei to do everything, I'll make it clear to you... When Yu Lei was in college, not only did I give him money, but sometimes I didn't have enough money, so I had to ask Qi Fei to borrow it... After a long time, can she give you a good look? "

 Lao Yu glanced at me, and then pretended to watch TV, but my heart was like eating a fly, because I was born in such a family, there are too many rights and wrongs; It seems that except for Zhao Lin, everyone is so calculating, so tricky and mean.

 At this moment, I couldn't help but add another point to Qi Fei's guilt; Over the years, my family has also given her the unfairness they have treated me... At that time, she must have been very uncomfortable, so it was rare to see a smile on her face, but I was different from Lao Yu, thinking of her sad appearance, I was full of distress!

 The next day, Xiamen, which had been sunny for a long time, suddenly began to rain lightly, and there were many fewer tourists on "Gulangyu Island...

 She spoke to me first, "Did my sister tell you?" I have already sold the car, a total of 130,000 yuan, but she transferred all the money to her account, I feel quite sorry, and I said at that time that I would return the 70,000 yuan to you as soon as possible... You're not going to be angry, are you? "

 "Don't be angry, I'm not in a hurry with this money, your sister did the right thing... Let's open a bubble tea shop first... When it comes to purchasing equipment and raw materials, you should know better than us... How much more do you think we'll have to invest in the future? "

 "The equipment I have there is quite new, some of it can be used, and I have to add a little more, and the raw materials for making milk tea also have to be upgraded, I think that if you count the decoration, you have to prepare at least another 150,000 yuan."

 "That's a lot of pressure!"

 When we came to the store, we met with the people from the renovation company, and they had already designed the decoration plan for us; This company is a professional shopkeeper, so it has its own achievements in the use of space, we are such a small store, but they designed a platform for us to put two small tables... Tang Ning liked this design very much, she said, in winter, we can sit on this platform while drinking wine, while enjoying the sunshine of Gulangyu, this is simply a wonderful life, she even thought about what kind of flowers to plant on this small platform; Her idea also made me very excited... Because, before this, I faced all kinds of cars and metal parts every day, and my heart became very steel, but this bubble tea shop is a kind of literary and soft, but also soft existence, after a long time, I may have a different state of mind, and then re-understand the world and those people around me who are closely related.