Putting Sex Aside

After Aminu asked me to be his girlfriend, and also broke the news of being celibate and intended to remain so, I was shocked and lost for words. And when he asked me if I was okay with that, I told him I was going to think about it and then get back to him.

It's been almost 24hrs, and that is all I have been thinking about.

I like him no doubt, but how am I supposed to date someone and not have sex with the person? That's not what I'm used to.

I'm a very sexul person and every guy I date I surely have sex with. That's why I don't go into a relationship with someone I'm not physically attracted to, because I need to be attracted to you to be able to have sex with you. The more physically attracted the guy is to me, the more I would want to have sex with him.