reincarnated, but I’m not special

At the end off his life Bowin comes to a grim reality, he died having lived no life of his own. Everything that he did was under service of, first his parents, then his family. From the outside looking in he had it all, but that was nothing more than a facade. He dies unsatisfied. Now reincarnated in another body, he seizes the opportunity to truly a life that is his own. Never again tying himself to the expectations or happiness of another person. Willing to face any challenge that tries to take away his freedom, even if he has to survive and overcome a gruesome war.